Singapore Nursing Degree: December 2010

It's going to be my first love-making?Help!?
I'm getting married to my fiance in October.We're both virgins. He is caucasian(22) and I'm Asian(18).We've made preparations for our wedding night.Lubricant,massage oil,rose petals,soothing music in a private resort.We even bought more than 10 pairs of lingerie for me and underwear for him each from victoria's secret and freshpair.We have no clue what we'll be doing.Tell me anything that we're missing out or important.I'm especially scared because I'm the girl who is going to get abit more uncomfortable or even hurt.Also he's gotta fly back to Australia because he's got University and I'll be in Singapore finishing my nursing diploma.Is it emotionally tolerable for me to separate from someone I've built a very close physical bond with and someone I really really love? We met during my holidays with my family in Queensland.He was on a holiday too.Since then we've been talking on msn for 3 years.He visits every 3 months and me and my family visits Australia twice a year.I've known and met his family since I met him so no he's not here to screw me and fly back.I did my overseas attachment in a hospital in Sydney(he lives 1 hour drive away) for 3 months and we met almost everyday.
Singles & Dating - 10 Answers
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1 :
youre building it up too much!
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When you have sex with someone, you get more emotionally attached than ever. In my opinion, I would actually wait until you're together for good, but I wish you the best of luck whatever you decide to do.
3 :
its going to be hard to leave him wen u guys have to seperate to go to school since he will always be real special in ur life! n u in his.
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Don't worry. Worrying will only breed resentment. Marry him and be thankful you have someone. He won't be at University forever. As for the love-making, I congradulate you both for waiting... just be yourselves, and it'll come to you naturally. I envy you for the experience you're about to have. :-)
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Did you meet online? Is he your source of knowing that he is a virgin? Are you making all the arrangements? Is he just flying in and screwing you and then flying out to Australia? If the answer to all of the above is Yes then please do some rethink.
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I think you should relax a bit. The first time isn't always great but relax and learn together. You don't need all that stuff, just being together with someone you love is enough. I can't respond to the second half of your question because you don't give enough details but hopefully your separation with be short because your are correct in your worry about being away from your husband for too long.
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Yeah, the first time is always a bit messy and confusing. Don't worry. eventually you'll get it right. You get to know eachothers' turn-ons. It is like bicycling - after a bit of practicing and a fall or two, it gets better and better. If getting a little drunk or high helps you both relax, go for it. Being too tense is never helping.
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the first time is kind of boring...cus you expect ....welll nothing because you ...know ...uh nothing. So dont worry..Since you have no expectations it will be great!
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good luck!!!!
10 :
Both virgins! To be helpful, you don't need all the appliances and accoutrement...you simply just do what feels good for both of you and explore each other where you have not before. If you need guidance here it is: sex is great, and sex in love is astounding if you simply put away any thoughts of denial or guilt and try your best to find what pleases your partner...and he you. Sexual pleasure is much more than genital contact...almost any loving touch anywhere can be a great prelude. A word of caution...whatever you've been told or felt in fantasy about sex, go slow and enjoy each step. It also helps to realize that like all things human...it gets better with practice so don't be disappointed if the earth doesn't move the very first time. Some will make fun and snide remarks about your question, because it is a personal intimacy that people often become uncomfortable discussing it. I have answered as if your question was legitimate and honestly curious. Let me also suggest you consider measures for planned parenthood. Get really good at sex, before you have babies.

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